It is not easy sometimes to accept that you are being abused, and it can be even more difficult to tell someone else. Sometimes this is because the person who is doing it is a close family member or a friend, and sometimes it is because you think people will laugh at you or ridicules you or it will affect how your community or friends think about you. It is often for these sorts of reasons that abuse goes unchallenged.
A number of key points to remember are these: